Have you ever felt lonely, disconnected, isolated? Most of us will experience loneliness in some form or another at some point of our life.
Thoughts such as, 'no one cares' and 'no one understands me' often arise at these times
Today rather than focus on the problems of loneliness, let us focus on how you can feel more connected to others.
Deeper, meaningful relationships help us to feel a strong connection with people. Relationships that are nurtured, equal and loving offer us a sense of comfort and well being.
What might stop you from accessing talking therapies?
This is what some people say and my thoughts and responses based on my experiences so far.
Talking to someone will not change the past.
We are not able to change the past, we can feel differently about what happened in the past and learn to let go of being stuck in the past.
I am a man, I don't talk about my feelings.
For some men it is difficult to overcome the belief that men don't talk about their feelings. Not all of course, there are some men who are very expressive.